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Why does the Vigyan Bhairav Tantra list a sneeze with fear and grief?
You're halfway through a sentence at the table when your eyes narrow and you hold up one hand, and for a strange half-second you can't finish the sentence or plan dinner, because your whole body has gathered on one point. There's a verse about that half-second in the Vigyan Bhairav Tantra, and I skipped past it for years because it sounded like a list somebody had thrown together at random. What they share, I saw later, is that each one knocks ordinary thinking offline for a moment, and the verse calls that moment a door. Verse 118:
At the beginning and the end of a sneeze. In fear. In grief. At the edge of a deep drop, or running from a battle. In curiosity. At the beginning and the end of hunger. There is a state full of pure being.
A sneeze and grief in the same sentence, and for a long time I thought it was the one silly line in a serious book. It isn't, because every item on that list has something in common, and once you see it you can't stop seeing it: each one is a moment when your ordinary thinking gets knocked offline.
Fear does what the sneeze does in a much bigger way, and so does news that someone has died. So does the lip of a cliff or, in the old warrior's version, the moment you turn and run, and so does real curiosity, the kind where you lean in without thinking, and the first pang of hunger, and the moment it goes. In all of them the inner voice that narrates your life, I should, I need to, what if, goes quiet for a moment because something bigger has taken over.
Normally that feels like the problem, and the verse calls it an opening. For a second there's no story going on, just being awake, and if you notice it instead of being swept past it, you can see what you are underneath the story.
I think this verse is more useful now than when it was written, because most people I talk to don't have a problem with sneezes. They have a problem with the other items on the list: fear, grief, the gut-drop of a bad email, the spike of anxiety at three in the morning. Those are hard because they arrive fast and big, and we've had no practice at being present for anything fast and big, only for calm things, on a cushion, with our eyes closed.
The sneeze is the same shape as panic, only tiny and harmless: the build-up, the helplessness, the whole body taken over for a moment, and then release. So start there. Next time you feel one coming, stay with it instead of letting it happen to you, and feel the tickle, the gathering, the moment you're completely taken and the loosening afterwards. It's almost funny, and it's also exactly the skill you'll need the next time something frightening takes you over.
When fear comes, the instinct is to get away from it by distracting yourself, arguing with it, scrolling, reaching for anything. The verse points the other way, not towards the scary thought but towards the state itself, the raw jolt, before the mind has built a story around it. In practice that means noticing things like these: my heart is fast, my chest is tight, my hands are cold, there's a buzzing in my stomach. You name what's there in the body, and you stay.
Two things usually happen. The fear doesn't grow the way you expected, because a lot of its size came from the story and not the sensation, and for a moment, in the middle of it, you notice that something in you is watching the fear without being the fear. That watcher is steady, and it was steady the whole time.
If you live with an anxiety disorder or panic attacks, a verse isn't a treatment, and a good doctor or therapist matters. But even alongside proper care, this is a skill worth having: meeting the first second of a wave instead of being drowned by the next ten minutes.
The last item is the one you can practise most often, the beginning and the end of hunger. In March 2020, in a camp at Shivpuri near Rishikesh, I wrote in my diary that I'd understood something: I was thinking about food a great deal, my projects were about food, and that was why I wanted to eat, while the more I ate, the less I managed to calm my mind. Most of us never meet the beginning of hunger, because we eat by the clock or before the feeling fully arrives, a little afraid of it, and we don't notice the end either, because we eat past it, looking at a screen.
So for one meal this week, wait until you feel hunger properly start, and notice where it sits and what it's like. Then eat slowly enough to catch the moment it stops.
Questions people ask
What does Vigyan Bhairav Tantra verse 118 say?
At the beginning and the end of a sneeze, in fear, in grief, at the edge of a deep drop or running from a battle, in curiosity, at the beginning and the end of hunger, there is a state full of pure being.
How do you use a sneeze as practice?
Next time one comes, stay with it: the tickle, the gathering, the moment you're completely taken and the loosening afterwards. It's the same shape as panic, only tiny and harmless.
What do you do when fear comes?
Turn towards the state itself rather than the scary thought: name what's in the body, a fast heart, a tight chest, cold hands, and stay. The fear usually doesn't grow the way you expected.
Is this a treatment for panic attacks?
No. If you live with an anxiety disorder or panic attacks, a verse isn't a treatment and a good doctor or therapist matters; this is a skill to have alongside proper care.
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